IF you had woke up this morning, to receive a msg from your supposedly boyfriend telling you that he was invited to a girl's 21st birthday party on the night just before your flight to go overseas for at least a year or so AND he asks you how?

With all the common sense in the world, this situational hiccup signifies that there's something wrong in the relationship yes? I mean if the guy prefers to go to someone else's 21st instead of spending what remaining time you have left in the country, then any dignified girlfriend would rather not spend her remaining time with someone who places her so little in his eyes.

What do you guys think?

I'd say go just go, leave just leave. BE where ever your heart tells you. If i was the girl, i wouldn't want that supposed-boyfriend anywhere near me since i was at one stage in his decision-making not part of his priorities. This is because if the guy should in the end choose to spend time with the girlfriend after asking her this, it means that his final decision would probably be part of her coaxing / as a result of her reaction to his question and NOT because he sincerely loves to spend time with her.

IF one day you told your supposedly boyfriend that your Dad had recently asked you that if your relationship was serious, you should start making serious plans and that of getting a house. AND your boyfriend reacts by going "oh" and then changes the subject, what would that make you think?

Yes, it would give you the conclusion that the relationship isn't as serious as you thought afterall.

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Turns out the decision to go overseas might not affect things at all instead it reveals things and people as they truly are.